crossing the line??

Okay, I juz had to blog about this. Let's go.. really straight to the point. Say you're a normal guy in an exclusive relationship. You meet this really pretty girl, it's normal to find her attractive right? I mean it's impossible for not only guys but anyone for tt matter to find people other than their mates attractive right? Now, say you tell tt attractive girl tt you find her attractive. Now this is another situation altogether. Then again, it could be juz passing a compliment or maybe tt girl is fishing for compliments. lol. Either way this falls into the gray area of "it depends". Okay... now.... say you tell tt girl tt you're attracted to her... tt's crossing the line isn't it? I mean it's okay to find others attractive, it's okay to pay a pretty girl a compliment but it's so NOT okay to tell tt girl you're attracted to her when you're in an exclusive relationship no? I mean why tell her you're attracted to her if you have no intention to further tt relationship with her? I find tt by doing so the guy is threading in dangerous waters no? I mean it's okay to be attracted, you have a little crush.. it's common. But should you act on tt attraction and turn tt little crush into something else? no! First tell another girl you're attracted to her... next sleep with the attractive girl. It always goes one step further...

You see, compulsive gamblers start small. Probably a small stakes game of mahjong or just pulling slots. Then once they get the thrill of it, they move on big stakes poker games, soccer betting, going to casino ships and before they know it, they're flat broke and in massive debt. It's the same thing with domestic violence. First it's verbal abuse, then physical abuse followed by emotional abuse. Which in my opinion is worse than physical abuse. Sometimes a person can taunt you and hurt your feelings so bad it'll be much better if he juz punch the heck outta you. Juz my opinion.

So you see my point? Sure they're exceptions.... sure people change... but in order for great good to happen a great evil must first be commited. I've always believed in tt... it's like cosmic balance. But then sometimes... people are juz sick and evil.

Okay.. so back to my life. I'm pretty much still bumming around. Other than doing research for my assignments I'm juz playing guitar hero and other nonsense games, watching my shows... and I can't wait for primetime TV to come back!! Only one more month before it comes back.. so excited. Finally get to watch my greys, gg, house, survivor, chuck... omg too many to name!! LOL. Seriously... I'm so behind on my assignments. Still not feeling the momentum to get it going. I remember I had this feeling during my first sem at CIM. I guess the long break is really a blessing and a curse! Gotta get started... gotta finish all my assignments in 2 weeks. Tt's the goal! After tt I can concentrate on exams... Then one sem is done! This sem has been overall pretty fun. Reunited with a few old CIM classmates.. glad tt it's not all strangers then I gotta start the whole getting to know you process all over again. Well... tt's part and parcel of life I guess.