Deal with it...

When almost everyone around you is attached/hitched/married. And you are the last single person still waiting for the nxt one to come along. You go out with your friends, they bring their partners/spouses. You look at them holding hands, sweet talking, feeding each other etc etc. You feel bitter. On an average day, you go out shopping. You see couples walking together. Then you feel sad coz you're shopping alone. When you're on the way home in the train, you see some gross kissing and hugging. In your mind you go 可恶! You would rather stay home on valentine's coz you're probably the only one who isn't holding a bouquet of flowers. Don't fret! Deal with it..

I say being single is better than being attached to the wrong guy. You are not lonely and definitely not alone. Go out, meet new pple. Get aquainted with new friends. You are not undesirable.. be a little more confident. Men are generally attracted to girls who carry themselves with confidence. I don't mean you have to be all bitchy and cocky. Damsels in distress are yester-year's trend. Really. The lower your self esteem, the easier you are to get. Then you are no challenge. The guy would most probably move on to the nxt girl and if he doesn't get her. He knows you'll always be available. The more effort he puts in to get you, the more he'll treasure you after he really gets you. The easier it is to get, the easier it is to throw. At least this is what I think.

Don't keep sticking to the same bunch of pple. Meet friends tt you usually don't. Expand your circle of friends. Go to the gym.. bla bla bla. You never know when cupid might shoot at you. But be careful, coz sometimes cupid will miss cue. Lol.

I know this girl. Let's call her erm... Anna. Anna has been single for maybe 5years. She is a single mother. Let's juz say in terms of looks she isn't really a looker. She is loud, rough and at many times rude. One year ago she called me and asked me what is so wrong with her. Why won't guys take a second look at her. Why does she always meet guys who only wanna get into her pants. She can't change the fact tt she has kids. Buy one get one free theory doesn't appeal to most guys. Unless you are ONE HOT MILF. But sadly to say, Anna wasn't. She is double my size, she doesn't possess a pretty face. She is so "chor-lor" she becomes one of the guys. And once the guys treat u like one of them, you are never gonna become the girlfriend. Her whole mouth is full of vulgarities. So how to attract guys liddat? Not to mention the good ones whose existence are close to extinction. Lucky for me, I managed to catch Alvin.. phew. =p

So she took my advice, started to go to the gym. Make time outta her super tight schedule to exercise. Control her diet. Starts to doll herself up. Makeup, clothes, shoes, facial and the whole she-bang. She started to buy ladies wear... finally. Kick the bad habit of spouting vulgaritites every 5 seconds. She really slimmed down, a whole lot. One day, Anna was out with "the guys" when one of them brought a friend. And voila.. Anna is now happily engaged.

I have another friend who is facing the same problem as Anna. BUT. She didn't do anything about it. Making up excuses about why her situation can't be helped. And now is still bitterly-single.. complaining about every single shit. Condemn all male species.. not doing a single thing to help her situation. But still complaining... Sighs.

So yes.. deal with being single. It's not tt bad. Hell, I was single more than a year. My love life was disastrous. Cupid keep missing cue.. shoot sala arrow. Finally, cupid shot the right arrow... at the mahjong table no less. Wahahaha. So I say.. you never know where/when you might meet the right one for u. =p