Entertaining myself...

You Are A Professional Girlfriend!

You are the perfect girlfriend - big surprise! Heaven knows you've had enough practice. That's why you're a total pro. If there was an Emily Post of girlfriends, it would be you. You know how to act in every situation ... to make both you and your guy happy.

What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?

Alvin would be happy with this! Aren't you dear?

The PJ's You Are Most Like: His Shirt

You're a loyal and caring girlfriend who can't get enough of her man So much so that you love to have him with you 24-7 And when he's gone, wearing his shirt is the next best thing

What Kind of PJ's Are You?

This is.... very true! Except his shirts are all at wash. =x

You Are Trinity

"Touch me and that hand will never touch anything again."

What Superheroine Are You?

... I don't think I'm tt... scary.

You are White Chocolate

You have a strong feminine side with a good bit of innocence thrown in. Whether your girlish ways are an act or not, men like to take care of you. You are an understated beauty, and your power is often underestimated!

What Kind of Chocolate Are You?

Hilarious!

You Are Thong Panties

Woman, you are one hell of a ride! You're a total wild child - and you live for crazy times. Men are attracted to you like flies to honey, even though they know they should stay away. You need a expert cowboy who can keep in tune with your free spirit!

What Kind of Panties Are You?

My expert cowboy - Alvin Wong. It's true.

Guys Like That You're Charming

You're the girl most guys can't get out of their heads Even if they met you on a bad hair day :-) You just seem to "click" with everyone you meet So even if a guy forgets about you for a second... his friends haven't!

What Do Guys Like About You?

Yes... I seem to "click" with everyone I meet. About the rest... I wouldn't know.

You Will Be a Modern Bride!

While you aren't ready to throw away all wedding tradions, you want a wedding with a twist You're more inspired by celebrity weddings on E! than from bridal magazines Whether this means getting married on the beach barefoot or a mariachi band for the reception... Your wedding will be a blend of old and new - white dress cocktail, personalied vows, whatever suites you!!!

What Kind of Bride Will You Be?

Darling.. I want ritz carlton or fullerton can? =p

You Are Right Brained In Love

Bit of a drama queen Peacemaker, first to end a fight Good at thinking up creative dates Tend to fall in love and get hurt easily Going with your gut instead of your head Emphathetic and caring, sometimes to a fault Good at recognizing patterns in relationships Been in love many times, perhaps too many to count Wildly passionate and intense when falling in love Spontaneous with relationships, going with the flow Overly visual - can play back past dates like movies in your mind Roses, love poems, and stuffed animals are a good start to winning your heart

Are You Right Brained or Left Brained in Love?

This is really true... 99% accurate!

Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman

Inside you've got the passion and ideals of a teenager And your intensity for life is what attracts most of the men you date You also like to party - and quite often you're the life of the party You've brought the best of your younger years with you... at least most of the time.

Are You A Girl Or a Woman?

Don't mistake me for britney. Please.

What You Know About Your Guy: Practically Everything

You have gotten to know your man really well From his hopes and dreams to favorite things... You definitely have enough info to figure out if he's *the* guy In fact, you may know him a little better than you know yourself

How Well Do You Know Your Man?

Those conversations paid off.. hee hee.

You Are Psyche!

Eternally in search of purpose and insight. You're curious and creative with a total sense of wonder. Totally empathetic, you pick up on other's moods easily. Just be sure to pamper yourself as well!

What Goddess Are You?

Alvin says I'm his Aphrodite!

End of the day, this is what I wanna say. I am bored.. bored.. bored... bored!

New Header

Not a big change.. but I've been wanting to do some changes to my blog for quite some time now. Finally... a brand new header! I know... it's nice la. =x Alright, I should quit braggin. I hope u guys like it though... I mean u are the viewers! Thanks dear... you did a real good job. I love it!

For all to see

I'm seeing alot of cases I've mentioned below happen.. right in front of me. And to myself. After a good, nice talk with Alvin. I finally understood... and I feel I should share. You may think you alr know the information I'm about to share. But when you are in tt situation.. did u really react tt way? I know I didn't... It's never too late to start and be a better person. For those smart ones who didn't let your emotions rule ur head.. Kudos to you! There is no pin-pointing to anyone in paticular in this entry. These are juz valuable information I'd like to let all my friends know. You may not think you're doing it.. you might be blinded by your own emotions to know you are actually hurting the pple around you. But trust me.. it happened/happens to the best of us. =)

Before you start getting frustrated - take a deep breath and cool down. By getting frustrated or what we call "pek cek" in hokkien. You are affecting the pple around you to feel the same way you do.

I've got a great example for this. One fine day I was waiting for a cab. I juz so happen to be the first person to reach the road for a cab. But somehow, no cabs were coming this way. The weather is fucking hot. And when I get hot... I get frustrated. And when I saw pple with "no-government-sense" go right in front of me and snatch the empty cab tt was rightfully mine. I got even more frustrated. Then I started to go "tsk" and whine about it to Alvin. I behaved like the very classic irritated lady waiting for cab. Which in turn affected the other about 9 pple behind me to get frustrated too. And then they reacted the human way. Walk away.. in front of me and hopefully get a cab earlier than me. If I didn't get so frustrated and behave tt way... they might not have wanna snatch my cab so fast right? Then I wouldn't affect Alvin to feel "ganjiong". And I wouldn't be in a bad mood myself... Truth is there was nothing I could do about it but wait. Unless I wanna walk outta the park which is a crazy idea. Frustrated or not... I had to wait.

Before you throw little tantrums - think why are you doing it in the first place. Do you have a reason for behaving this way. By showing little tantrums, how does it affect the pple around you. Will they snap at you? Or will they be nice enough to tolerate with it.. and how long can they put up with nonsense like these? There are only 2 kinds of pple who can tolerate behavior like these. One, the pple who truly care, cherish and love you. Hug them, kiss them never let them go! Two, the pple who can't be bothered abt you. Meaning... they don't give a shit and would probably laugh behind you for creating unecessary tension juz so you can get the extra attention.

Before you flare up - Allowing urself to flare up only makes things worse. You have everything to lose and nothing to gain. You shout, scream or even cry. At yourself maybe... even worse at the pple who love you. Imagine how shitty they are feeling when you do tt.. Walk a mile in their shoes... You should understand.

When you're unhappy - Don't keep it to yourself... find a person to talk to. Say you're unhappy with your mum, go find her and tell her why you're unhappy. In a nice way tt is. Don't be rude or sarcastic. Show her respect... not only bcoz she's ur mum. At the end of the conversation, you wanna achieve a common understanding and resolve the issue at hand. Same goes for couples. Always talk it out.. communication is very important. And it takes time and effort. Nobody said it was easy. If you don't resolve the issue at hand and bury it in the ground. The nxt time you quarrel with your other half. The old problem is gonna be dug out and put on the table together with the new problem. And my conclusion = double the shit. Tt is no formula to a successful, loving and growing relationship. Keeping problems to yourself will only cause the snowball effect. The snowball will roll and evantually increase in size. You act like you're okay on the outside, but inside you're snowballing. Your problems are boiling... and finally "ring" you snap they all come out at one shot. How scary is tt?

When you meet a problem - Your first reaction is always to stay calm. Because by fretting and getting all panicky over it.. doesn't solve the problem. What solves the problem is a solution. And you will never be able to come out with one unless you are calm. In most cases if you're all worked up and agitated.. the solutions u come out with are fucked. Trust me. And after u come out with a solution... stop fretting and whining over it. Execute and action. Now tt... works.

One of my favourite phrases - I am but only human. Yes.. you are but only human. There are some problems which are within your capability to solve. There are some which aren't within tt range. Understand tt. If you can help... go ahead. If you can't.. there is no point getting so upset over it. You've done your best and tt's all you need to know.

Bottom line, don't let your emotions get the better of you. It will not help the situation but very possibly worsen it. And it will cloud your better judgement to think rationally. You control your emotions not the other way round. Juz like you walk ur dog, ur dog doesn't walk you. When you allow emotions to rule your head, you alr lost half the battle. I juz love talking to Alvin.. coz everything he says juz makes sense. Juz so u know... he told me all of the above mentioned. Okay.. not all 3/4 of it! Anyway I know what I'm gonna post below super no link But then again.. I have to share la! Lemme "haolian" abit k?! =p


Yes! Alvin aka Mr Wong did this.. in something like 10min. Eh.. I'm a photoshop idiot. So this is really.. something. LoL. Nice? Okay... I'm done "haolianing".. haha. Have a nice day everyone! =D

I woke up in the morning

Today I woke up at 7.30AM. YES! AM! These are one of the rare occasions where u have to buy 4D.. really. Coz I wake up in the morning once in a year? I think... like how frequent I take bus. If not for MRTs, my EZlink would've probably.. became "giam chai" alr. Coz I keep cabbing... and cabbing.. and cabbing. Yup.. I know I'm spoilt. At the least, I spoil myself. And I tend to spoil others as well. Like for a very big example.. Elisa.

I'm kinda sad coz I juz gained 1kg. It took me quite some time to shed some 3kg away. I was never really disciplined. When it comes to eating. When I don't eat... I really don't eat. I scare the pple around me with the amount of food I take in. When I eat.... I really eat! And poor Alvin has to eat with me.. haha. I realise my appetite gets affected by my emotions and mood. When I'm sad, pissed or down I have no appetite. When I'm happy.. I eat super alot. I probably take 8 meals a day... goodness. Like no wonder the 1kg gain. =( So me... have to work hard again to lose it. Hopefully Nic wakes up in time to swim with me. Coz today.. schedule kinda tight.

Eh.. I came home last night with alot of msn msgs. But I didn't reply la coz u guys were all offline or away by then. This is not the first time this kinda things happen. Sorry.. I know I kinda disappear. Heh. And I know I'm online.. coz I'm never offline. But I may not be at home... or in front of my com. It's always better to find me via mobile. Many apologies! Anyway.. I found out.. Taiwan Variety shows can also be found and downloaded from the net. Wonderful.. and here I thought only movies and english drama serials can be found. I is once again mountain tortoise.


Anyway.. here's our new pic. Nice hor? I juz cut my fringe again. Somehow I find it makes me look older. Hmm...

My Valentine

Alright, I know it's a little early to blog abt Valentine's. But I celebrated early! So juz before I hit the bed, I have to blog about my early valentine's at the Copthorne King's. Dardar, Thanks so much for the weekend, the gifts, the card you know.. like you always say "and all tt jazz". I really enjoyed myself, the food was great, the time was well spent and most important of all... it was your company tt made the weekend so wonderful. Muacks!


Here's Alvin with the surprise bouquet of flowers! Thanks for not listening to me dear.. I love the roses. Especially the colour...


I know I look hideous.. This is the result of major lack of sleep without makeup. juz look at the bouquet okay?

So the night was followed by 2 rounds of mahjong to cure my "itch". Yes.. I am addicted to mahjong! I won... $8. Lol. We tried to sleep early so we could wake up in time for check in. As much as we tried, we juz couldn't get to sleep. Haha. In the end.. we both concussed till noon... woke up juz in time for check in.


Us getting really comfy on the bed..


More... think this is after we ordered room service. Btw, a plate of fries was $13!! Freakin Ex.. could've ordered Mac's. =x


BIG KISS! MUACK!


A really messy unmade bed.. still can't figure if it's King or Queen size..


The bathtub where we enjoyed several romantic bubble baths! =x


Dardar occupying himself while I get prepped..


Tada... getting dolled up.


Cheeky boy took a shot of my butt.. while I was too busy drawing my eyebrows. lol.


This pic is really scary.. it has like 5-7 orbs. OMG. Can't believe we were surrounded by so many of em... *quivers*


Food! We went downstairs to princess terrace rstnt for penang buffet. It was pretty worth it!


More food... btw, the otah was delicious. Oh and they even serve 豆花, ice kachang, chendol. It's like a high class, self service hawker centre. Lol.


Mini is the new Super-size. The mini kueh-kuehs. So cute right?! The ang ku-kueh is only the size of my 2 fingers! And the 九层糕 looks like agar-agar to me!


Back to the room after a really hearty dinner. I swear to God my stomach was about to explode!
But it was good though...

It was a night of lovin, lovin, lovin and more lovin! I didn't take as many pictures as I thought I would. Anyway, we took a walk to Sultan for supper. On the way, we saw many police patrol cars. I thought some fight happened. It was not until I walked to somewhere near Mdm Wong tt I realise the place is dead! So many of those pubs closed down.. I wonder where the party animals are these days. MOS, Zouk maybe Momo? Hmm.. Anyway, we finally reached the bah-kut teh stall when I realised the police were there bcoz of Thai Pusam. Stupid me... Supper was goood.. supper is my favourite meal of the day! It's been a really long time since I've had good bah-kut teh. MmmMMmm... Delicious! We spent the rest of our night mostly at the balcony.. cuddling up, enjoying the beautiful scenery. And finally, succumbed to our bodies and fell asleep... And now.. I'm really tired! Yawns.


Look at my sleepy eyes! Here's us preparing to leave for the temple to 拜太岁.

Alvin was told tt he needed to 拜太岁 this year. And we had to go coz it's the last day of lunar new year. After alot of squeezing through the crowd... we finally reached the temple. In the end, we found out Alvin didn't need to 拜太岁 it was me tt 犯太岁 this yr. LOL.

Okay guys... 2 days to the actual Valentine's. May yours be spent with the pple tt you love most! Once again dardar... thank you. This is the best Valentine's I ever had.. and I'm glad I spent it with you! Love you!

My first NTU experience

The rain is back.. I don't really like it. I hate rainy days and sunny days... I like it cloudy with cool breezes. Woo. Perfect weather. You know I always get mixed up with "whether" and "weather". Does tt happen to you too?

Okay.. so yesterday I went to NTU with Alvin. Lemme tell you.. the place is huge. Really.. huge. The canteen is basically well, a typical foodcourt. I've always imagined the hostels would look like HDB flats. Or many tall buildings. But no.. it looked more like shophouses. Two storeys. I saw one building.. and I thought in my mind "oh.. tt's one hall". NO! Tt's one block of a hall. goodness.. I sound like a mountain tortoise now. Btw, Alvin is right... the room is unbelievably hot and humid. But still tolerable.. I've experienced worse. Well, two fans would solve the problem!

Anyway, when Alvin's IA ends and he has to go back to school I would most probably be spending alot of time there. Hopefully he gets enough points to get his single room! Heh Heh. While waiting in the room for Alvin to finish his meeting.. I browsed his PC. Aiyo... theatre. So many movies and drama serials! Okay, the drama serials are his friend's. But their PCs are like connected.. so I have access to those serials through Alvin's com.

I was happily watching OC season 3 when suddenly it stopped. I thought what happened.. panic for a while. Then I realise his friend off his com. Tsk. Abit irritated la.. coz I was watching halfway. But at least I got a proper ending coz Season 2 was a major cliffhanger. Oh.. there's this one rule in his hall. Girls, bring ur shoes in the room after 11pm. So funny right? Alvin showed me pictures of him frm a few years back. His firedance, and strip dance video! Man.. I never knew he could dance! Wooo darling... you ho man wor!

Quick update on today. Slept till 5+ today... I know we are piggified. Went out for Genki Sushi.. which somehow caused my tummy to ache. And they don't serve tempura udon... which jap rstnt don't serve tempura udon.. So weird. And finally... I got my new pair of levi's. I can't stand my current pair.. I would like to think I slimmed down. Coz it's so loose I can pull it down. Yes.. I'm very excited to finally wear my new Levi's which Alvin bought for me! Thanks darling! As usual, I went to 77th to buy clothes. Half the clothes in my wardrobe are frm 77th street can. I should try shopping else where. Lol. Yumin, don't kill me!

Alright pple.. I'm gonna sleep now before I won't be able to wake up on time again. Valentine's is round the corner.. I hope everyone would have a LOVELY valentine's. I'm so looking forward to this saturday coz Alvin and I are checking in to Copthorne King's for Valentine's! No choice.. since the day itself is a tuesday. Neh mind darling.. on valentine's itself we go kopitiam eat 煮炒情侣套餐 okay! Ho romantic oh..

Can't think of a title

This so sux... Mum and aunt went to JB to pray. Umah's got her off day today.. so Elisa and I had to settle dinner ourselves. Nono.. tt's not the sucky part. I was thinking Chinese food.. so we went to Crystal Jade. The queue is.... super super super long. Then we walked from TM to Century for Soup Restaurant. Another disappointment... they crossed out 3/4 of the items in the menu. Okay put it this way huh. All food available for order are not what I wanna eat! So irritating! We had to settle for Jack's then... coz Elisa refused to take Japanese food! What is so wrong with Japanese right? Urgh.

Okay la.. I like Jack's too. So I diam diam juz eat lor. Now this is one way to ruin a perfect dinner... finding out ur friend turned gay. Worst part.. the food is delicious. Then ur friend calls and tells u he/she saw 2 of ur guy friends... kissing. Tt thought alone... is enough to make me puke. The good thing is.. it's not my friend. It's elisa's.. hahaha! But hor I told Elisa it's probably a good thing. Not as in it's good tt 2 guys turned gay. Coz it's so sad to know there's one less eligible bachelor available. See, Elisa used to like this guy. But somehow... this guy rejected her. And she juz can't figure out the reason why. Now we all know.. he rejected her not bcoz she's undesirable or unattractive. It's bcoz... he's gay. Isn't tt a morale boost? =x

Friday went for mahjong with my aunties. First round.. I was losing. Second round... I won back my "revenue". Then when alvin msged, I immediately 自摸5台. You do the calculation.. we played 30,60 cent.s 自摸 add another $2. Which means tt win alone earned me $66. Somehow during the 3rd round I managed to lose them all. I wonder how I did it. Luckily Alvin came and saved me during the 4th round. In the end I won... $16. Haha.

Okay.. I'm talking cock. I'm juz so bored.. I have more than 20gb of movies and serials to watch. But for some reason.. I don't feel like watching. I is missing Alvin now. Bah!

Chinese New Year

Happy Chinese New Year! Yes.. Cny was pretty good. You know u get to see the "distant family members" and enjoy a really weird silence. The only few things I like abt CNY, the angbaos, the food and mahjong. There's something special about mahjong when it comes to CNY. I have no idea why.. maybe it's the festive mood. I brought my cam around.. hoping to go home with at least 20 pictures. But no.. coz i was busy babysitting or playing mahjong. Haha. I did take a few pics tho... here's some.


My favourite aunty... She's one of the reasons I'll go over to my dad's side.


My little brother.. so cute la. I was trying to get him to smile..


Oh yes.. the "littlest" of all. My baby sis... so cute hor? I have 2 more step siblings.. but didn't manage to get pictures of them. I juz simply adore them..


My cousin's dog... Camille. Before taking this pic.. she was sleeping on my stomach. Tt caused me to be immobilised. In the end, we both fell asleep together.. so sweet.


I juz have to show off la. Alvin used photoshop and made a normal picture look like a neoprint. Nice right. =x

Okay.. guys if my calculation is right. You have 10 more days to collect all the angbaos u want. Happy visiting, good luck! Oh ya mum.. sorry I "pon" work today again. hehe.

my 21st b'day.. finally

Let me juz say.. tt this is entry is gonna be filled with pictures. Sorry for delaying this long awaited post.. I was juz too lazy! So here.. since I decided to "pon" work today. I'm gonna blog about my 21st birthday. It was a big big mess I tell you. 3/4 of the time I didn't know what I was doing. And very embarassed to say.. I got an anxiety attack. Coz time is up and pple no arrive ar! So anyway.. pple did come la. The first day was pretty much spent with swimming, mahjong, mahjong, mahjong and more mahjong. Chalet no mahjong.. kill me can? My chalet has to have mahjong! Okay.. I believe I alr made tt statement. Heh. Here comes some pictures.


Here's the beginner table.. all charbors. haha.


Now here.... is the EXPERT TABLE! Look at my stress face.

After the mahjong and supper.. it's sleeping time. I woke up to see one empty bed. Elisa had to squeeze on my bed with me.. I wonder why. Alvin below me.. Richie and Nickole beside Alvin. Where the rest went I dunno. So I went down and saw a very very messy chalet.. I had to clean up. Too bad for Richie my camera was kinda missing.. he couldn't take the picture of me on my knees mopping the freakin floor. wahahaha! Went swimming with nic and elisa after they woke up..


These 2 were so enjoying the peace and quiet while we were gone.. until we came back and bugged them for... LUNCH!


Some of u might remember a picture in a much later entry of Nic's and my butt. So here's our butts again..


I tell you the food here is so expensive la..


While we were waiting for our food... this little girl kept coming to our table. But when we talked to her.. she walked away.. like we were gonng eat her liddat. So cute.


Elisa entertaining herself with the big fish.


My 2 PRS beautifying themselves. In the end, Nickole emerged the only useful one!


look at them.. so pretty ar.


My family... yes Umah is family! Love you guys..


The guys.. this was so candid. Coz Adriel was supposed to take a picture of the girls but when we all posed and smiled. He turned and took the guys.. idiot.


Finally... Love you girls la! Muacks!


Me and the guys... lemme juz say it was so difficult to get all of them to put up a decent smile. sighs. I had to pose a few times okay!


I love this picture. Really. All my buddies, in one picture. What a perfect moment!


Catherine loves me..


Elisa and I attempting to act cute!


Marilyn! Wonder where was I looking at...


Presenting.. the Kum brothers! Kum Chee Keong (aka Richie sensei), Kum Cheelee (aka Chilli, birdman) and Kum Cheepeng. No nickname for him yet!


The only pple I invited frm PFM. Xuan, Rick and Carrot! Thanks guys for showing up.. I only see them once in a year. On my birthday la. Lol.


Moo and her friend! (I forgot his name.. hehe) The only picture I have of them on tt day.


My childhood mates... Jeffrey, Minhui, Jasmine, Adam and Wayne. Sandy came lata.. but by the time she came.. my cam low batt. WTH.


Look who decided to make an appearance? Nikki! So as we all know.. if Nikki is there, paul is there. But he was juz too busy scooping up all my alcohol. So no pictures of him. =x


Marilyn was supposed to help me with the crowd.. she was supposed to.. until Nikki came. Diaoz.


Tony and Theresa! And like I said.. my cam low batt la. So when Victoria came... no picture could be taken. Stupid elisa.. take so many pictures of herself. Tsk.


Fierce.. My god pa came.. And coz of the cam thing.. when my god-bro came.. cannot take picture also.


Shirley! My god-sis.. u see the resemblance? She looks so like her dad..


Okay.. the peak of the celebration would be the cake. It was delicious! 2kg cake! But managed to finish.. wooo! Thanks guys.. the cake was really good. Alot of chocolate, no cream. Juz the way I like it.

Before the day came.. I kept wondering what it would be like. Lemme tell you.. it was a big mess. I'm 21... I can watch R21 movies! Wooo! Nothing of the porno sort.. but those good movies like Sin City rated R21. And I couldn't watch coz I was... 20. Idiot right? So anyway.. thanks pple for coming. I apologise on behalf of elisa tt I couldn't take pictures with some of u coz she made the cam low batt. Sighs. =x I have so much to say... especially the endless thank yous. But I guess I could save tt up for another day. So once again.. Thank you. For everything! The presents were wonderful. I loved them all. *BIG GROUP HUG*